5 Reasons Relationships Fail and What You Can Do to Change
When you understand why you are having relationship problems you can do something to change them.
From working with thousands of women all over the world for over 10 yrs we have found there to be 5 common reasons why relationships fail.
5 Reasons Why Relationships Fail
You don't love yourself unconditionally.
You feel disconnected from love due to emotional pain from your past.
Too many stressful emotions piled up on your heart.
You feel you don't deserve love from others.
You have given up finding love.
You Don't Love Yourself Unconditionally
The best way to truely know the answer to this question is by saying to yourself, "I love myself unconditionally. I describe the process of doing this in the video below. See, if you don't love yourself, how can you expect your partner or anyone else to. In quantum physics, they understand that "like attracts like." So, you only attract someone that believes the same thing.
So, if you are someone that doesn't love yourself unconditionally, you are in luck because this can be changed. The only reason you don't love yourself unconditionally is because you have put up walls or barriers that are preventing you from. All of these walls and barriers can be removed with this simple process below.
You Feel Disconnected from Love due to Emotional Pain from Your Past
Typically this manifests itself as a fear of showing love to your partner because it makes you feel painfully vulnerable. So, again attracting a partner that is similar or you don't attract anyone at all.
Meanwhile all this is is a blockage that you created based on a misunderstanding from a past experience. If this is something you have then you will likely have to continue to have emotionally painful experiences with each relationship but with different people. The purpose of those experiences are to bring your awareness to it so you can change your story.
Use the process I describe in the video below, but with your original intention of, "Why am I disconnected from love?" Your soul will guide you to the answer and by using the technique I describe in the video you will be able to resolve it.
Many Negative Emotions Piled Up on Your Heart
If you have 2 or more of these signs or symptoms I can guarrantee you have many negative emotions piled up on your heart.
Hypersensitive emotionally
Easily offended
Get defensive easily
Trouble being around a lot of people
Have an overall feeling of stress daily
Let's face it, people don't want to be in a relationship with someone that is stressed often because it doesn't feel good. There is usually a lot of miscommunication, arguing, lack of compassion, empathy and understanding because you are in a stressed state. Therefore, these relationships don't last or if they do they are usually unhealthy relationships.
If this sounds like you, you must be willing to overcome these emotions if you ever want to get past them. Next, ask yourself, "What do I need to do to overcome them?" What is the first response you get back from that question? Go with that.
If you find this too changing to take on by yourself, contact someone that can help you.
You Feel Like You Don't Deserve Love
This is due to an imaginary wall you have put up to protect yourself from being hurt. Whenever you put up an imaginary wall it is because you were hurt in your past due to how you interpreted a situation. Everyone's wall will be unique to them. The common factor here is you have hidden a part of yourself in the wall that is preventing you from feeling like you deserve love.
To remove the wall you have to be willing to go to your imaginary wall: feel and understand it with the questions below. Doing so will free you from the pain and belief, "you don't deserve love," and help you return to wholeness.
Questions to Dissolve Your Walls
What is the nature of the wall?
Hold a conversation with your wall. What does your wall say? How is it effecting your emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually?
What does the part of you that sits behind the wall say?
What is the wall protecting you from?
What is the nature of the power that you have locked in your wall? (this is good part)
How can you release it?
You Have Given Up
This typically happens after you have had too many heartbreaks and you have lost faith and trust in yourself, your higher self and the universe.
If this is something you have, the reason for it will be unique for you. To regain your faith and trust you must be willing to move past the attitude of giving up on love.
In this video you learn:
How to test whether you love yourself unconditionally.
How to dissolve the root cause of why you don't love yourself unconditionally
How to reclaim lost love
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